5 Biblical Keys to Becoming a Better Friend

5 Biblical Keys to Becoming a Better Friend

By Rev. Daniel Matthews, M.Div.

February 6, 2025 at 08:00 PM

Strong friendships are key predictors of long-term happiness. Here are five essential ways to be a better friend, backed by biblical wisdom:

  1. Be Present During Hard Times
  • Show up when friends face difficulties
  • Offer genuine support and comfort
  • Spend quality time together during challenges
  • Focus on listening rather than giving advice

Friends laughing outdoors

Friends laughing outdoors

  1. Choose Friendships Wisely
  • Prioritize positive, mutual relationships
  • Limit toxic friendships that drain energy
  • Invest time in people who genuinely care
  • Focus on quality over quantity
  1. Maintain Trust and Confidentiality
  • Keep private information confidential
  • Never gossip about friends
  • Build trust through reliability
  • Honor shared secrets

Woman gossiping with coworker

Woman gossiping with coworker

  1. Be Authentic and Honest
  • Offer constructive feedback when needed
  • Share genuine thoughts and feelings
  • Help friends grow through honest dialogue
  • Don't just tell them what they want to hear
  1. Show Your Commitment
  • Make sacrifices when friends need help
  • Demonstrate care through actions
  • Be reliable and consistent
  • Communicate your appreciation

Remember: Actions speak louder than words. Show up consistently, maintain confidentiality, and be willing to sacrifice your time and energy when friends need support.

Three women laughing together

Three women laughing together

Six biblical friendship characteristic squares

Six biblical friendship characteristic squares

Two women in tense discussion

Two women in tense discussion

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