The Truth About Not Being the You You Remember: A Christian Perspective on Aging

The Truth About Not Being the You You Remember: A Christian Perspective on Aging

By Rev. Daniel Matthews, M.Div.

January 15, 2025 at 09:48 PM

Age brings wisdom and transformation, not just physical changes. While society pressures women to maintain youthful appearances, our aging bodies tell stories of lives well-lived and God's faithfulness.

Physical changes reflect our journey: sun-weathered skin from outdoor activities, pregnancy marks from nurturing life, and wrinkles from countless expressions of joy and concern. These aren't flaws to fix but testimonies of experiences that shaped us.

Our transformation goes beyond appearance. As believers, we're continuously renewed through Christ (2 Cor. 3:18). Each wrinkle and scar represents God's grace, marking our growth from who we once were to who we're becoming. Through trials and joys, our inner selves are being refined while our outer selves naturally age.

This isn't a call to neglect self-care, but rather to shift perspective. When Paul wrote, "Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day" (2 Cor. 4:16), he reminded us of what truly matters. We're promised glorified bodies in eternity (Phil. 3:20-21), making our temporary physical changes less significant.

Instead of trying to be "the you you remember," embrace becoming who God is shaping you to be. Let your face tell the story of a life spent loving others, overcoming challenges, and growing in faith. Like the lyrics of "Amazing Grace," our journey through "dangers, toils, and snares" testifies to God's enduring grace.

Book cover: Growing Together

Book cover: Growing Together

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